Intimacy and the Holidays

What happens to libido when holiday rushing and decorating and partying take over? In the midst of all the chaos, have you found your oasis of joy? In my life there is my adult child, new-ish boyfriend and extended community to consider. As I sought to get dinner in the oven one evening, I completely […]

What Self Care Means to Me

As I write this, I am 64 ounces into a laxative-infused Gatorade binge and counting myself lucky I get this option to prep for my colonoscopy tomorrow. You see my best friend from college, Gerritt VanWagenen, Jr. was not so lucky. He was taken by colon cancer before most people think about getting a colonoscopy. […]